Sunday February 21st

. I went up to lunch with the Benvenisti’s at 17, Belsize Square. Mrs B has an unbounded admiration for John Gow [the Head Master] and sees his genius and mind in everything. She remarked, laying a hand on her heart in true foreign style ‘’e is all tenderness ‘ere!’. Both she and Mr Benvenisti are very foreign (and I should say very rich!) and quite difficult to understand. We had a most excellent lunch, E.S. Wood was also there. The house is prettily furnished and somewhat sumptuously, we each had a Chippendale Armchair to sit in for luncheon. They were both very hospitable and hoped we should come again.

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Saturday February 20th

I write this on Sunday as I got back too late last night. I spent most of the breaks trying to get people to take the places of the ‘plague stricken’ and go to the Coronet Theatre in the evening [see Friday January 29th]. Out of the original 11 names I sent to Mrs Murray-Smith: Bonner, Marriott, Yolland, Mellor and Barrington-Ward all failed me! Eventually I took in their places Hobson and his brother, Rawson H. and Miles and as Price came too we turned up the right number if not all members of the Shakespeare Society!! I did not tell Mrs Murray Smith except about Barrington-Ward who has gone up to Oxford for the performance of the ‘Frogs’.

We had a very nice little dinner and eventually we got to the theatre just before it began. I sat between the Murray Smiths and Hobson J. very shy on the other side of Mrs Murray-Smith. Richard III is, I think, the best of Benson’s parts, he is good and the scene where he first refuses and then accepts the crown he acted exceedingly well, Miss Genevieve Ward as the Queen was wonderful. Mr Murray Smith, Low and myself made an unsuccessful attempt to see Worlock between the Acts — we got on to the Stage and were horribly in the way and in danger of our lives as heavy scenery was being moved in all directions. Mr Benson told his Manager to ‘put Mr M-S in a place of safety’ and it was really no ‘fa├ºon de porter’. We then stood against the curtain but were so frightened of it going up that we fled without seeing him. It was interesting as showing the high pressure at which these things are done, the army being instructed how to get off, in the tiny space in the wings, a very necessary thing to arrange.

After the Play was over we all went behind and Benson was very nice and shook hands with us all. On the way back Mr Murray Smith harrowed Mrs M-Smith and myself with gruesome stories about an inquest he had been to that morning. I am delighted to say Mrs M-S was very much taken with Low and asked him to come and see her.

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Friday February 19th

Today’s great question ‘have you been quinined’? John and perhaps Radford have succumbed to ‘flu while of half-boarders Marriott and Yolland complain of bad colds. Reports vary as to whether Rigaud’s have 13 or 15 cases! We drop off like flies!…

This afternoon Father and myself went up to Colnaghi’s and saw the picture (at last) of the Grant Family. It is rather charming though typical of the period: Mrs Grant in white satin wearing a mop-cap and holding an open book, Mr Grant in a brown coat, red waistcoat and grey stockings, bare-headed and holding his three cornered hat and his stick in one hand, standing by her, while on the other side charmingly painted a pudgy baby and little Richard ages about 6 years old playing cup and ball, all this in a landscape and trees. Mrs Grant looks to me like a woman of Hogarth’s type…I find that the best thing to do is to write to the head of the firm and say exactly what I want and I send my own photographer is Mr Colnaghi gives permission and quite possibly I mayn’t have to pay Colnaghi anything.

 

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Thursday February 18th

. After Hall I went up to the Exhibition and showed some things to Etheridge and Pemberton and W. Gray. Grandly opening cases, as a Committee man and handling birds whereas mere ‘visitors’ are ‘requested not to touch’!…

Later Low and myself went to the Organ Recital in the Abbey which we enjoyed especially No 2 (a + b) and Tchaikowsky’s Marche Funebre which is exquisite in one place. By-the-bye I am quite pleased that in the programme they mention the fact that the Rt. Hon. G. Cavendish-Bentwich was an OW. These little reminders to a forgetful public never do any harm and it is quite right that it should be mentioned. We stumped up for the collection and left as soon as we had done so it seemed mean to go before. I just got back in time for tea to find that Hobson had been too. Low and myself sat in the Nave. Of course the ‘Bach’ was miles above our heads and to us hideous and blurred.

The invalids are better tonight, Gilmour has recovered.

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Wednesday February 17th

Barrington Ward got Gow to give the Bug. Soc. Committee 3rd hr off but neither he, Low or myself availed ourselves of it, I couldn’t very well cut Burrell but I did not go into prayers (mark the subtle distinction) and went up and helped Clark rig up some electric lights for the bird-cases, and was a little late for Hall in consequence. Afterwards the Society having met in the Old Library and proceeded to the Lecture Room, Barrington-Ward declared the exhibition to be open.

Four mortal hours all but a quarter did I stay in that room this afternoon. It seemed better that someone should be there and H. Wood and myself spent most of the time re-arranging the birds and showing them to better advantage. Really I think it is an excellent little exhibition and even Gow was quite pleased with it. H. N. Wood had really take a great deal of trouble over it and Barrington-Ward paid him a well-deserved compliment in the course of declaring the exhibition open. I am very pleased that we should leave such a substantial record of our year of office and I think that future generations should be grateful to us. I learnt quite a lot of Natural History in the course of the afternoon.

‘Flu is raging in the School. Hodgson, Smurthwaite, Mrs Thresher and possibly Gilmour have succumbed.

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Tuesday February 16th

Mr Pryhe (Canon of Exeter) came unexpectedly to lunch today, he always loves coming down to Hall and today he found me in the seats of the mighty. Talking of the King he said he ‘will now be more German than ever’ with reference to his German visit. He said that the Bishop of Truro told him that when he went to pay homage, the King said referring to the Cathedral ‘you will not like Truro (rolling the ‘r’ in a very German way) as much as Ely’. The Bishop told the King that he had had a meeting at Ely of all the Deans in the kingdom and that they all said that Ely was the finest Cathedral in England, save one!!’ ‘Ach! Goot!’ said the King!

Afterwards we went out to see the Procession and after exertions on Father’s part the School were allowed right out on the pavement. We had with us Mr Pryhe, Aunt Daisy, Maggie Knox, Aunt Mary, Aunt Louie and a friend. By dint of strenuous efforts we got together some boys and made quite a decent row to greet the King. It is very striking the lack of cheering at these processions until they reach opposite the School and I doubt if they would cheer properly unless someone started them. As it was Father and myself wiggling on the tips of my toes in my loyal excitement shouted until we were blue in the face. It is always a very pretty little procession and today was no exception. Both King and Queen looked very nice and were bowing nobly. The procession returned about half-an-hour later and we again or rather I alone, Father having moved off, made a good deal of noise!…

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Monday February 15th

. I went up with Low to Colnaghi’s & Co this afternoon about the Grant picture and we were met by a courteous gentleman who said that he expected the book-keeper in a few minutes and that he would see to us. I explained why I wanted to see the picture and we then waited until he who kept the books arrived. He was not nearly so courteous after I had answered the question ‘Did I want to buy the picture’ in the negative. To begin with he had to make the distressing announcement that though they had bought it in 1895 they had not yet sold it, he squashed the Hogarth idea and rather amused me by saying that ‘we don’t call it by Hogarth but by Hayman or Highmore or one of that School’. The picture was away for the moment but they said that they would get it to Pall Mall and that if I came up then I could see Mr Colnaghi and arrange about photographing it for reproduction. We bowed and were bowed out. I wish that I had ┬ú50 to buy the picture for the House!…

Gow gave the Bug Soc Committee a ‘play’ this afternoon and we spent afternoon School shifting cases etc up in the old Lecture Room. Ward is exhibiting the mummified cat and rat which were found in Ashburnham House. I had never seen them before. Most gruesome round the cat’s neck is a leather collar and a name plate which I must get cleaned as far as we could decipher it (it was black!) we made out ‘ddel’ suggested of course Liddell! I think if it turns out to be so and I write a label ‘Dr Liddel’s Cat and Lord John Thynne’s rat’ it will have a pleasing effect.

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Sunday February 14th

Who now keeps St. Valentine? Punch strive to keep it alive but I believe for practical purposes it is almost non-existent.

I was so pleased to remember half-way to Oxted that I had left this journal on a chair in the Dining Room where the small boys come in after Abbey and read magazines. I don’t suppose any of them would look at it and apparently Father moved it on to the Cabinet and it had some papers on top but it is not a pleasant idea.

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Saturday February 13th

The great event of today has been my visit to the Wakefields at Potters Bar [see February 3rd, January 30th and January 28th]. I caught by accident an earlier train at King’s Cross than Mr Wakefield suggested and so when I got there there was no one on the platform looking out for me. I made one bad shot, going up to a person who seemed to be looking about. Eventually Mr Wakefield came down by the next train and as he was carrying a life of ‘Edward Gibbon Wakefield’ (OW and Great Uncle of Mr Wakefield) he was not difficult to recognize.

We had about 15 minutes’ walk to the house which is quite a tiny cottage right on the Great North Road. The Wakefields are very badly off, I imagine, indeed I gathered from Mrs W, that almost all their money had been swallowed up in the great Wedderburn Case which lasted 32 years and was supposed to be the original of ‘Jarndice v. Jarndice’. Her Father won his case but the whole of the estate and more besides was swallowed up by the costs and also the Grant and Dixon money was greatly mismanaged.

The pastel portrait of Mrs Grant is charming, she must have been a most beautiful woman, the picture is of the Jane Austen type with her beautiful hair falling over her shoulders and dressed in a white dress with puffed sleeves and a very high waist. There was also a miniature of her, her husband and son and also two most fascinating sketches one of Mr Richard Grant Jnr full length entirely in green with a green tail coat and white stock and one of the old straight top-hats. His son Frederick also in green bare headed with a riding switch in his hand. Apparently Mrs Wakefield’s sister has got miniatures of old Richard Grant and his wife and Maria Dixon and finally the big picture by Hogarth was sold at Christies and bought by Colnaghi. So if I can trace this I shall have 4 generations of the Grants. Anyhow they are going to photograph all the miniatures etc. that they have got.

Mrs Wakefield being Scotch and superstitious tells me that the picture of Mrs Grant suddenly fell just before or after (I can’t remember which) my letter arrived. Maria Dixon seems to have been very clever with her fingers — the Wakefields have got a silver medal presented to her for a sepia drawing she did which they have got, a beautiful thing, they have also got a board on which is pasted the Duke of Wellington in folded tissue paper on horseback, simply done by skillful manipulation, an extraordinary clever bit of work. Her husband was a great geologist and published a book on the geology of Sussex. There is a miniature of him.

It seemed so queer to be looking at things which actually came from this house, the tray tea was brought in on belonged to the Grants and a Chinese cabinet, an early 18th century sideboard (very fine carving) and chairs of the same date. We looked through a deed box belonging to Major Wedderburn and they have lent me various deeds etc to look at, from which it appears that the old Richard Grant got heavily into debt and made over the house to his son, while he retired to his Rectory. What delights me is that the Wakefields are as keen almost as I am an are leaving no stone unturned but I fear the chance of Entrance Books is but slight as Mrs Wakefield said her Father was days up in Bridge Avenue turning out etc.

Among the things I brought back was a lock ‘of Mama’s (Mrs Grant’s) hair aged 19 and a letter to Miss M Grant, Little Dean’s Yard, Westminster dated 1825 which thus returns to its original destination after 84 years! By a curious coincidence on looking at this letter again I find it dated Feb 14th Noon. Tomorrow therefore it completes its 84th year. It has delighted us as much, I suspect, as it did the original receiver. It is a copy of a genuine cobbler’s bill which I think one Moore sent to Miss Grant thinking it might amuse her.

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Friday February 12th

On this day 19 years ago I first saw the light in Vincent Square. In a month we moved here so I may almost claim to have been a Grantite from birth. It seems a great age and ‘I think I may say’ like Pepys on a similar occasion ‘that I am as happy a man as any in the world, for which God be praised’.

Between Schools went out and had my hair cut and having reached the age of 19 gave 2d to the man for helping me into my coat!!…

Going through the Under Changing Room today I heard an agitated conference in progress and all innocent of my presence someone being exhorted to ‘tell Laurie’! I, of course, did not hear but passed on majestically. The advice has not been taken as yet and I haven’t been told anything.

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